tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41618575096071660222024-03-13T23:11:01.560-05:00Life or Something Like ThatA blog of a guy and his family of teenagers and early 20 somethings, a wife and a couple of dogs.Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.comBlogger72125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-57870064475342316262008-12-05T18:39:00.002-06:002008-12-05T18:48:55.276-06:00Obama's $30M surplusSo our new president has some extra bucks he needs to get rid of. Hmmmmm. <br /><br />Click below of follow the link to read the AP article.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5iG0Jun8bPA6gp2Y2Oe-XONMBaNZQD94SRIDG2"></a><br /><br />Let's see if we can think of some things he might could do with his extra money.<br /><br />I heard Hillary Clinton was in debt. Mr. Obama wants the voters to help her pay it off, even though I'm pretty sure she could afford to pay it off herself. But hey, who wants to do that???? But Mr. Obama has some extra cash. He could help her with her debt. Oh shucks, that's no fun. Let the common plebes take care of it.<br /><br />The article say's that the Democratic National Committee is carrying about $5 million in debt, with almost $12 million cash on hand. DNC officials say they expect to have the debt paid by the end of the year. The Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee carries some $19 million in debt and less than $3 million on hand. The Democratic Senatorial Campaign Committee is nearly $13 million in debt.<br /><br />Well now, there's some folks he could help out I suppose...<br /><br />How about this one? I know some poor American car makers who keep going to Washington in their jets...no, no, no, I mean their cars to ask for help. Seems they screwed up their companies something good and now they need some help to fix things. Mr. Obama, being the generous, organizing type of soul that he is could help those guys out.<br /><br />Oh wait. I know a better one.<br /><br />Give the money to the common folks of this country who go to work everyday and pay their taxes.<br /><br />That might help the economy. <br /><br />On a closing note - if McCain had won the election and he had this much money left over, I'd say the same thing.<br /><br />Wait and see where the money goes...Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-52792368307088846982008-11-15T15:03:00.002-06:002008-11-15T15:15:49.302-06:00Time for a ChangeNow that the election is over and John McCain pretty much blew it, I've decided it's time for a few changes. I'm big enough to admit that these things have been in process for a while. The results of the Presidential election simply put the final piece into place for me.<br /><br />The first change is that I'm done with the Republican party. Kind of a shame. I was raised Republican. My family is of Republican leaning kinds of people, for the most part and we're all pretty much conservative. But the Republican party no longer represents me or my interests - at least not accurately. I first really saw this when the Republicans took control of Washington. There they were in total control of everything and they completely alienated the rest of us. It's like they all went to Washington and stuck their heads into a time warp of stupidity. They did everything wrong, were an embarrasement and eventually got voted out. Look at where the party is today. What a shame. I refuse to associate with a party that acts that way and is that stupid.<br /><br />So now I'm an independent. That's an interesting place to be in. It's kind of freeing!<br /><br />I now listen to Neil Boortz too. There are days when he drives me crazy, but he's spot on with the Fair Tax. Good stuff. Once again, it's something that the Republicans ignored to their detriment. Of course, the Dem's are ignoring it too. Too bad for them. Whichever party wakes up first and latches on will own a major foothold in Washington...<br /><br />While I am no fan of Obama or the left leaning people he seems to be picking, I do respect the man for an incredible campaign. He got it right. He ACTED presidential which is exactly what he needed to do. I'm hoping he is an incredible president. We'll see.<br /><br />The other problem with the Republican party is their inability to relate to people and to explain the advantages of "Rugged Individualism." I love individualism. I don't want to suck off the government's tit. I don't want the government to own me or to rescue me. But rugged individualism is also very hard. And most people don't understand it. And further, those who do understand it - Republicans mind you, are absolutely horrible at incorporating compassion into their message. The Democrats are all over this one and I applaud them for that. <br /><br />One other thing. I listened to most of A Prarie Home Companion the other day. <br /><br />It wasn't too bad.Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-33524068096349584012008-09-13T21:57:00.001-05:002008-09-13T21:57:46.132-05:00Message to ObamaI'd like to hear Mr. Obama's response to this...<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/yLMa7hXAOhU&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/yLMa7hXAOhU&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-61722035837690300312008-09-12T07:42:00.001-05:002008-09-12T07:43:51.000-05:00OopsieHey Joe, do you think YOU can do the job? <br /><br />The Democratic campaign continues to weaken...<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FVy2yh28eig&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FVy2yh28eig&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-6486510636820700132008-09-10T07:52:00.009-05:002008-09-10T20:47:55.197-05:00Oh Be Careful Little Tongue What You Say!Uh-oh, Mr. Obama is starting to come undone. You may be seeing the first cracks in a campaign that is going to crumble into ashes.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FPd4yk0x-eg&hl=en&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FPd4yk0x-eg&hl=en&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-21781275967841234632007-12-31T09:10:00.000-06:002007-12-31T10:14:29.086-06:002007 OverviewToday is the last day of 2007.<br /><br />For me, this is an exciting day because tomorrow I will no longer be a rookie Real Estate guy anymore! It's hard to believe, but this time last year I had just taken and passed the Real Estate exam on the first try. And I was ready to head off into a new career, not having any idea if I would make it or not or what might lay ahead.<br /><br />January through February was spent recovering from an ice storm (remember that one???) and taking my post license classes. I also spent time in the office getting to know the other agents, sitting at my desk waiting on the phone to ring (which didn't happen very often at first!), doing floor time (which means being on duty in case a customer comes in), holding open houses in the icy cold winter months for other agents and getting my first listing, which happened to be a trailor at Grand Lake.<br /><br />As Spring came on, so did changes. I got other listings, sold my first house in Broken Arrow and got real busy, real fast. One thing you sacrifice in the world of Real Estate is time. If you aren't willing to drop everything to go show a house or meet a client, don't go into this business. It can be very demanding. <br /><br />Now, at the end of the year I can look back and be pretty satisfied with 2007. I had set a goal of selling $1 million this year, which is pretty aggressive for a new agent. I ended up selling $3 million, which, in my opinion, is attributable only to God's hand of blessing in my life. Along the way, I began working part time with a little church in Collinsville. This is a wonderful group of people who love us and support us. Our goal there is to help them to grow to the point where they can hire a full-time guy. As God blesses and gives wisdom there, I know the growth will come (the church already has begun to stabilize and grow!).<br /><br />Some things that I have learned and/or changes that have happened in my life and family this year include:<br /><br />>Diane and I pray together each morning prior to leaving to face the day. I'm sorry to say it took me so long to grow to where I could do this with her, but when you have to rely on God because you no longer receive a paycheck every week, you maybe get more willing to knock on heaven's door. At least that is what happened for me. This one thing has drawn us closer together.<br /><br />>I have struggled with staying in God's Word as much as I used to. No one to blame here other than myself. Either I choose to open the Bible and read something or I don't. However, I think I understand and relate to real people in the real world much better because of this struggle. When I was full time in ministry I had the luxury of sitting in my office day after day and studying the Bible in depth. In the real world pressures, ringing phones, needy clients and other interruptions crowd in.<br /><br />>I have seen our kids grow and develop throughout this year. Heather is dating a young man who is getting ready to head off to basic training in the Marines. He's a great guy. I like him. She is still working and getting ready to start classes at TCC in January. Chris is a Senior this year and is excited to be wrapping up high school. He's considering going to college once he graduates. Sheldon is a Junior and is still dating Eva. He works at McDonalds and is a student manager now. Each of them have followed us to the little church in Collinsville even though we told them they could attend wherever they wished. It's fun to get to see them involved there.<br /><br />>Diane is still at the bank. She's just been promoted and will be working at the main branch. She's excited about the opportunity to advance. She continues to blow me away with how she crack the outer hard shell of people. She'll introduce me to people at <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Wal</span>-Mart who are her clients and I will think to myself, "Wow, I don't think that person and I would ever talk if it was just us in the store." But with her, they are just kind and humble and gentle. This is a real gift that she has. I have to work on that one more.<br /><br />For us there will be no resolutions for 2008. As I shared with the folks in <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">Collinsville</span> yesterday, resolutions are something that go in one year and out the next. They don't work. So for us we will just continue to trust that God will take care of us and bless us and lead us through another year.<br /><br />See you around town.<br /><br />And remember, when you're ready to buy or sell your next house, call the best. Call Bob!Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-73028544045343761522007-12-10T13:03:00.001-06:002007-12-10T13:23:07.257-06:00Tulsa Ice Storm December 07<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUCcOhiWEn2PID_GRWk8_uv2FCo0DV-QH68Fkp8R_hOoKQG0uMmTkgvC06zi8rlH65aB-FKG_0X3imNN_dr6pq5V9y7ZqV9M3GpRcJob4F9_71qmKpO1lm0TeCVXjiTOMsjbbQafv3pA/s1600-h/DSC00509.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5142426646587084354" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUCcOhiWEn2PID_GRWk8_uv2FCo0DV-QH68Fkp8R_hOoKQG0uMmTkgvC06zi8rlH65aB-FKG_0X3imNN_dr6pq5V9y7ZqV9M3GpRcJob4F9_71qmKpO1lm0TeCVXjiTOMsjbbQafv3pA/s200/DSC00509.JPG" border="0" /></a> You may have heard about the winter storm encompassing the plains right now. In the last 48 hours, we've had a lot of ice, most of which tends to cling and accumulate on trees. If you'll look closely at the pic on the left, you'll notice that the pine needles are buried deeply within the ice coating. The ice is at least 1/4 inch thick around the needles. This branch fell from my once beautiful pine trees in the front yard.<br /><br /><div><div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLCNyWmiKjUR0unPM4aE6m-1_YBezC7GhWcwy9u_zldKcVH2j1vTFaFF2cfyz-MYifLq_EsIHB5CxrxbKcY6puWQdEcDLNwE7ZjAd0VqJLGg4qHHj3l2stUVX2W8vNV-waI9pXw30U4w/s1600-h/DSC00503.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5142423532735794706" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLCNyWmiKjUR0unPM4aE6m-1_YBezC7GhWcwy9u_zldKcVH2j1vTFaFF2cfyz-MYifLq_EsIHB5CxrxbKcY6puWQdEcDLNwE7ZjAd0VqJLGg4qHHj3l2stUVX2W8vNV-waI9pXw30U4w/s200/DSC00503.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div>The picture on the right is a broader shot of the pine trees. After I took this picture the branches up high fell off of the tree. Man, you should hear what that sounds like!</div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEji9njrmkkl7hYGFyBKeBk7FO5991S3C8iT6p2UMYQwcKccf4v9Bc1HyQcQBPAl-HWTAIxB9CAlMi_p_3Qm4fCNmeNmy2-4LBZlfl-76G3bnT6OaR4Fg99O7O_Y5VnwWDr4qWRohrp7bQ/s1600-h/DSC00511.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5142425379571732002" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEji9njrmkkl7hYGFyBKeBk7FO5991S3C8iT6p2UMYQwcKccf4v9Bc1HyQcQBPAl-HWTAIxB9CAlMi_p_3Qm4fCNmeNmy2-4LBZlfl-76G3bnT6OaR4Fg99O7O_Y5VnwWDr4qWRohrp7bQ/s200/DSC00511.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><div>This is what ice can do to an oak tree.<br /><br /></div><br /><div></div><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiehwklF8r89RjAiYF_FYivh7IzgUb-CZtYYdgCLwxjURRGfegBQAMGwUy-nsfjZn_htQOzAlK0AvdiYLbIJvDgi6T5ULbxg6r-6KJ-1GTcWvWTERewQgmd5iKAB_jTU0p0Gpd3rtovBA/s1600-h/DSC00515.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5142425821953363506" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiehwklF8r89RjAiYF_FYivh7IzgUb-CZtYYdgCLwxjURRGfegBQAMGwUy-nsfjZn_htQOzAlK0AvdiYLbIJvDgi6T5ULbxg6r-6KJ-1GTcWvWTERewQgmd5iKAB_jTU0p0Gpd3rtovBA/s200/DSC00515.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><p align="right"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgE2uAMCVipi7dFZOFAOt2mPR80kOooa7AvCWDVbTGlRBm1W-KGQlJf98xLn0WP2XLuDg5Q2IElFBPC8_njvISNstE9Z_yzM3vWs6LAJ0JwGr7L_NW_D-LVyw0orV3Kk9j9is1lKai_IA/s1600-h/DSC00503.JPG"></a></p><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgE2uAMCVipi7dFZOFAOt2mPR80kOooa7AvCWDVbTGlRBm1W-KGQlJf98xLn0WP2XLuDg5Q2IElFBPC8_njvISNstE9Z_yzM3vWs6LAJ0JwGr7L_NW_D-LVyw0orV3Kk9j9is1lKai_IA/s1600-h/DSC00503.JPG"></a></div>Watch out baby Jesus! The sky is falling! <br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><br /></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div></div></div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-78173837178720544552007-12-04T21:18:00.000-06:002007-12-04T21:21:33.411-06:00WowI saw this pic on a Google news story about obesity. Is the guy big or is the girl little? I'll let you decide. <div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRX5sBs03U3s2wYKD8W5e56LfAYGPCtcbgpOz6SW1p7Uxwha_bLZdOgRa7A6bLuNkxVThP2Q0EEhqcZf_STcam9ZuxgZD9JGm283_kGQfpi_ZbYn_403FuAZbS2Xd2irfeNiYjjtXkoA/s1600-h/obesity-fit.jpg"></a> </div><p align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRX5sBs03U3s2wYKD8W5e56LfAYGPCtcbgpOz6SW1p7Uxwha_bLZdOgRa7A6bLuNkxVThP2Q0EEhqcZf_STcam9ZuxgZD9JGm283_kGQfpi_ZbYn_403FuAZbS2Xd2irfeNiYjjtXkoA/s1600-h/obesity-fit.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5140323440173122050" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRX5sBs03U3s2wYKD8W5e56LfAYGPCtcbgpOz6SW1p7Uxwha_bLZdOgRa7A6bLuNkxVThP2Q0EEhqcZf_STcam9ZuxgZD9JGm283_kGQfpi_ZbYn_403FuAZbS2Xd2irfeNiYjjtXkoA/s200/obesity-fit.jpg" border="0" /></a></p>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-34395706120553093462007-12-03T18:50:00.000-06:002007-12-03T19:00:09.961-06:00The WellI heard this saying at Diane's Christmas party this weekend. <div></div><br /><div>"Those who drink the water should remember those who dug the well."</div><div></div><br /><div>I like that...sort of. Let me explain. </div><div></div><br /><div>I think it is correct in its pure meaning. If we benefit from the work of those in the past, then we should remember those people who went ahead of us. That's good.</div><div></div><br /><div>On the other hand, the statement has the potential for causing deep ruts.</div><div></div><br /><div>Having been in church work for many years, I have seen too many congregations get stuck in ruts due to being hung up on tradition and the past. Is there anything wrong with tradition? No. Is there anything wrong with remembering the past? No. But we must be very careful to correctly remember those who dug the wells in our lives in such a way so as not to be kept from moving forward. </div><div></div><br /><div>I'm not saying we should walk away from those who dug the wells. And I'm not saying we should walk away from what they stood for either. Not at all. What we should do though is to be propelled forwards to build on what they did in ways that are relevant but always based on the same values, morals and principles. Why? Because truth never changes. If you are a spiritual person, you will understand what I am talking about here.</div><br /><div></div><div>I'm going to use this little saying and these rambling thoughts in a series I'll be presenting at our church in January. Here is the logo for the series.</div><br /><div></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhJ8gBn4D0QQnQKKKwotA6bv1wYEXkcZO6cMxc_ABDQbC7tJwqPvpp4ECWcBJ6OClctp8rUxDpuBZDpXlRkaB3oTaQ1oT9BtijgZZNvIU-OhSoevWVxguIC5kcylAPz3iG6S46ob8OieA/s1600-r/vision+logo+with+border.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5139915590078693874" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjclFjJQoVTJjcpq8nbZ4Vc6N11V3LsogNre25OTL1-gkbT1kg6md9saYjYTx57Yc_IZ0gReiJWUHirKwZGMAUFkSljTbgMlai-d14z07L-7PqTaYBofHpr6r-F5B3q-VwUhY_tgk6qw/s200/vision+logo+with+border.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div> </div><div>Application: Are you digging wells that someone else will enjoy someday?</div><div> </div><div>Bob</div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-75364450568880572882007-11-21T07:37:00.000-06:002007-11-21T18:57:35.712-06:00What I'm Thankful ForIt's Thanksgiving season which means it is time to be thankful.<br /><br />Here are some of the things I am thankful for in no particular order<br /><br />My salvation<br />My family<br />My dogs Teddy and Carmel<br />My jeep<br />A great house I live in<br />Money in the bank (that's always nice!)<br />Health in our family (for the most part)<br />Great parents<br />My sister<br />Good friends<br />Two guys named Larry and Earl<br />The <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">internet</span> (makes my job rock!)<br />The wonderful people who bought/sold houses with me so far this year (it's been a good year!)<br />Unconditional love<br />C.S. Lewis<br />Rich Mullins<br />That I was born when I was and not in the current generation (bet my parents said that too!)<br />My neighbor (who went into a sales job at the same time I did and understands)<br />That heaven is real, God is good and His love endures forever<br /><br />Have a safe and happy Thanksgiving<br /><br />BobCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-52858967769633557752007-08-07T08:44:00.000-05:002007-08-07T09:08:29.963-05:00Summer 07Someone mentioned to me the other day that it had been a long time since I had blogged.<br /><br />They were right.<br /><br />This summer has been a time in my life unlike any other. I have been so busy with Real Estate and the new church that there have been days when it literally has felt like I was riding a super fast spinning merry go round.<br /><br />I haven't ever had to live life at such a hectic pace before. Church work tends to keep you busy, but not THAT busy!<br /><br />A couple of observations about the world of Real Estate (from a relatively new agent).<br /><br />1)You meet lots of really nice people in this business. And you meet lots of very interesting people in this business. The funniest people are the ones who come to open houses and they don't want to talk to you or to let you know their "inner" secrets about their real motivations. You learn to read people like this. And what is so funny is that they're really only hurting themselves. In being all <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">secretative</span> around me (the Real Estate Agent) they're shutting out good <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">converstation</span>, a potential friendship and relationship and my ability to help them accomplish their goals. Lest you think this is a commercial, it isn't. I'm a person first and a Real Estate Agent by job choice. At the end of the day doing business is, of course, the end goal. But getting to know people - even if I can't ultimately help them is the best part of the job. People who hide motives close out that part of being a human being. <br /><br />2)In this business you also meet some of the goofiest people on the planet. Some of them are buyers and sellers and some of them are other agents. Suffice it to say that the world is just full of...interesting people. I include myself in that!<br /><br />3)I think the state of our economy has hit everyone. Interestingly enough, what it has done is to cause lots of people to look for easy to cut corners. Folks might be getting rid of their <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">SUV's</span>, but not everyone is. You still see people out eating all the time too. In the world of Real Estate people have decided (at least a lot of people) that they can sell their house themselves and save the real estate commission. In a free market economy I'm okay with that. In fact, I've done it myself (before going into the business). The part that gets to you as an agent is the attitude that goes along with it. People tend to think that we agents are money grubbing, wealthy snobs. Maybe that is an image we have presented. I don't know. What I do know is that I work hard to make a living for my family. I pull a lot of hours and bend over backwards to serve my clients. When I get paid, I believe I have earned my income.<br /><br />4)My real estate company is a great place to work. I love their vision, leadership and support.<br /><br />5)Being self employed (outside of the higher taxes you pay) rocks! I love not having to be at an office, under a boss at a certain time every day.<br /><br />6)Selling houses is fun because you get to see the inside of so many homes. We are such a creative society that you never know what kind of decor you're going to walk into. And then, once my buyer has moved in and made the house their home, it is really fun to see the changes.<br /><br />So that's my observations from the world of Real Estate so far. It's an interesting career. Not one for everybody, but so far it's good for me!<br /><br />BobCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-35241007925619657672007-06-18T13:42:00.000-05:002007-06-18T14:04:37.714-05:00Catching UpBlogging is one of those things for me that comes in waves.<br /><br />Sometimes it's like I'm driven and I blog and blog and blog. At other times, it is more like I have to drag myself to say something...sometimes to say anything.<br /><br />There have been many changes in my life over this year. Through this process I have experienced many emotional swings. I knew God was in these changes, but it has been a pretty wild ride. Of course, with God it usually is...at least when it comes to faith and trusting Him.<br /><br />Let me summarize the year for you.<br /><br />Moved out of a large church ministry in November 06 somewhat surprisedly. I know now (as I really new then) that it was God but it was still a big change and not one that I had planned in advance necessarily. Details aren't important here as much as is the fact that God had a plan.<br /><br />Decided to go into Real Estate to make a living so the kids could finish high school in Owasso. Got my license in 3 weeks and began January 2nd. Remember what happened right after that? Major ice storm! God was good though. He brought me business right off the bat and now I've had 8 closings. Pretty good for a first year agent!<br /><br />Diane and I agreed that, along with Real Estate, I'd help small churches by filling in for them at times. So we went off and began visiting some significant sized churches in and around Tulsa. That was fun. Seeing believers of different faiths worship the same God was really cool. Then about six weeks ago a small church in Collinsville called me up and asked me to fill in for them. I knew at the time (or should I say "sensed") that God was probably going to plop us down with this congregation. And He did.<br /><br />Now I'm the preacher there. It's a part time gig, but it's been fun to be the guy who sets the vision and leads the service, etc. I meet with the elders (of which I am one - that's a weird change!) each Monday for lunch at the church. We are discussing the vision for the church and are already making plans for how the church is going to grow. I've not always been in a situation where I had an opinion that mattered and now I am. It's nice.<br /><br />I firmly believe God has a plan for this little church to reach people with His love. And for some reason or other He must think I'm the guy (at least for now) to lead them towards fulfilling His plan. The more I think about that the more I realize the seriousness and gravity of it. It makes me tremble. It also makes me stand back in amazement. God would actually use a common guy to help fulfill His purpose here on the earth? Wow. How cool is that?<br /><br />So my life right now varies between thinking about selling houses and working with customers and what I'm going to preach on Sunday. Finding illustrations for what I'm speaking about - well that's the easy part!<br /><br />So watch for a little church in Collinsville to be making some big waves pretty soon. <br /><br />BobCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-9747239899241034632007-06-03T14:34:00.001-05:002007-06-03T14:56:03.257-05:00Memorial Day 2007Diane and I loaded up the kids and went to the graveyard on Memorial Day this year. We don't usually make them go, but my mom and dad were in town this year and I wanted my kids to hear some history of some of the family who've gone on ahead - and I wanted them to hear it from their grandparents.<br /><br />Part of my reasoning behind this is because I know a day is coming when my kids will visit that graveyard to visit the graves of their grandparents and probably my own and their mother. I wanted to create a memory for them for when that day comes.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgghXwdMrDUj0-Jndqkq9JiBmPPltI5xnxMTUFEvO5vMEo9494CtLwsddeKt8NXHaC1S78wczBXyQxTC8_FkHyp6TcqfJd1N9SYWt9O6CnzCr8yMENd4it5anjJgLex2YsgmPHs_dCRMg/s1600-h/DSC00208.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgghXwdMrDUj0-Jndqkq9JiBmPPltI5xnxMTUFEvO5vMEo9494CtLwsddeKt8NXHaC1S78wczBXyQxTC8_FkHyp6TcqfJd1N9SYWt9O6CnzCr8yMENd4it5anjJgLex2YsgmPHs_dCRMg/s200/DSC00208.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5071924120125036242" border="0" /></a>Another reason I wanted to take the kids along was because of this particular gravestone. Notice it says that buried below it is the limb of this lady. My mom and dad remember the lady, but could not remember if the limb was an arm or a leg. I thought that was funny.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">Notice in the next picture that the lady died just five years later. While standing over her gravestone we discussed whether or not she ever visited the <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">gravesite</span> of her missing limb. Someone<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEie8QaM87aI5z8nWOjkBWLVpB6433-uZ0B55xfXUSs42VtT7ZHhsX4JJtDFek1wdNHEY1AJAV2IC3O4RIALHYVbHNPZfePZRDXxGqCe3pQiEVUXnevp7E7QK9-ePj8cy6onAQARzm01zA/s1600-h/DSC00209.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEie8QaM87aI5z8nWOjkBWLVpB6433-uZ0B55xfXUSs42VtT7ZHhsX4JJtDFek1wdNHEY1AJAV2IC3O4RIALHYVbHNPZfePZRDXxGqCe3pQiEVUXnevp7E7QK9-ePj8cy6onAQARzm01zA/s200/DSC00209.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5071926035680450274" border="0" /></a> pointed out that they might have buried the limb because of the idea that to be resurrected one had to have all their parts available. Interesting thought, especially in light of cremation and the practice of spreading ashes today.<br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />One other interesting thing about this graveyard visit is that all of the people who are buried there are buried facing east (head to the west/feet to the east) so that when resurrection happens they'll rise facing the Lord.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFtMqskKgvi0YsznpwapTvleypyIOPA0z-xpxVbLqATkaC7rc2lQaMClRaqRciw94I-9FRZIRtB3A42sJsmhe1UEp7o37N93ZaHHQO5VX5AUv2JjNnqyONyh9Yxa44jjrnYOrb0DJmKw/s1600-h/DSC00202.JPG"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFtMqskKgvi0YsznpwapTvleypyIOPA0z-xpxVbLqATkaC7rc2lQaMClRaqRciw94I-9FRZIRtB3A42sJsmhe1UEp7o37N93ZaHHQO5VX5AUv2JjNnqyONyh9Yxa44jjrnYOrb0DJmKw/s200/DSC00202.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5071927843861681906" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: left;">This last pic is of me, the boys and my dad standing by my grandparent's grave. It's my desire to buried close to my grandparents. That's weird to think about. It's even stranger to stand by the place where you intend to be buried and to think to yourself, "I'm going to buried here someday." Then you kind of get into the dying part and that's even weirder so you don't think about that much. At least I don't. It does make me consider the reality of heaven and hell and God and angels and all that I believe though. For me if all that stuff (and resurrection) isn't real then life is pretty hopeless. I think a guy named Paul said something like that once.<br /><br />Anyway, it was a good visit and a good experience. I hope my kids will remember this day as a good day in their lives. <br /><br />I know it was in mine.<br /></div></div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-69099398150788991062007-05-10T09:08:00.000-05:002007-05-10T09:10:03.527-05:00Why Can't I Forgive (from Gary Smalley)This popped in my email this week. Thought it was good...<br /><br />Why can't I forgive?<br /><br />We all know that forgiveness is important and critical to any healing in a relationship. Still the question remains: "Why is it so hard to forgive?"<br /><br />Here are three main roadblocks to forgiveness.<br /><br />First, there's the inability to see our own mistakes and imperfections. If we're unable to see our own faults and mistakes, how can we possibly move toward forgiveness in our relationships? We must first be able to admit that we're not perfect and that we're capable of hurting people we love. This gives us compassion.<br /><br />Second, there's unresolved anger. Unresolved anger is a major hindrance to the healing power of forgiveness. If we refuse to let go of bitterness, rage or hatred, we're holding on to very destructive forces. These forces are in direct contrast to the power of forgiveness, and they cannot exist together.<br /><br />Finally, there's a misunderstanding of what forgiveness is. Many people have great misconceptions about what forgiveness is, and therefore they struggle with it. I like what author Paul <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Thigpen</span> says. "Two New Testament words we translate 'to forgive' mean literally 'to let go' and 'to cancel a debt'. I found that at times the phrase 'I forgive you' seemed empty, so I said, 'I release you. I let you go. I let go of this offence. I cancel your debt. You owe me nothing now. I renounce my desire to get even with you.' That way, the imagery of this biblical language filled the word 'forgiveness' with a more specific and concrete meaning."<br /><br />Forgiveness may lead to reconciliation or it may not, but they are not the same. Paul recognizes this when, in writing about our attitude to those who wrong us, he says, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone" (Romans 12:18).<br /><br />Is there someone you need to forgive today?Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-16465426167434790862007-05-08T21:34:00.000-05:002007-05-08T21:39:38.031-05:00Catching UpYou'll notice that I haven't posted for a while.<br /><br />I've been busy, but that's no real excuse.<br /><br />Fact is, I've been working through some decisions that need to be made and it's been difficult.<br /><br />Diane and I have been praying earnestly for God to speak and guide, but the answer has been total and complete silence. <br /><br />Never before in my entire life have I not known what to do or direction to go.<br /><br />So if you <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">know</span> us please pray for God's direction in our lives over the next several days. A decision must be made...and soon.<br /><br />On a side note: The world of Real Estate keeps hopping. That's good!Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-44079517193376754922007-04-20T13:18:00.000-05:002007-04-20T13:20:22.622-05:00Good Advice to Live By*Your fences need to be horse-high, pig-tight and bull-strong.<br />* Keep skunks and bankers and lawyers at a distance.<br />* Life is simpler when you plow around the stump.<br />* A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor. <br />* Words that soak into your ears are whispered...not yelled.<br />* Meanness don't jes' happen overnight.<br />* Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads.<br />* Do not corner something that you know is meaner than you. <br />* It don't take a very big person to carry a grudge.<br />* You cannot unsay a cruel word.<br />* Every path has a few puddles.<br />* When you wallow with pigs, expect to get dirty.<br />* The best sermons are lived, not preached. <br />* Most of the stuff people worry about ain't never gonna happen anyway.<br />* Don't judge folks by their relatives.<br />* Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.<br />* Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll enjoy it a second time. <br />* Don't interfere with somethin' that ain't botherin' you none.<br />* Timing has a lot to do with the outcome of a rain dance.<br />* If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'. <br />* Sometimes you get, and sometimes you get got.<br />* The biggest troublemaker you'll probably ever have to deal with, watches you from the mirror every mornin'.<br />* Always drink upstream from the herd.<br />* Good judgment comes from experience, and a lotta that comes from bad judgment.<br />* Lettin' the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than puttin' it back in.<br />* If you get to thinkin' you're a person of some influence, try orderin' somebody else's dog around. <br />* Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God.Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-70948754759340229522007-04-16T08:48:00.000-05:002007-04-16T09:02:43.263-05:00Things God HatesMost people like to think of God as a God of love. And He is. But God isn't just a gooey, hippie kind of "dude" who loves all things regardless of their nature. For example, it would be ridiculous to believe that God loves ungodly behavior towards others. And it would be ridiculous to believe that God loves things that entrap and hurt us such as drugs and other addictions. While God loves us we know better than to believe He loves it when we abuse our integrity by gambling on the computer while at work. And surely God grieves rather than smiles when we guys get caught up in internet porn which is idolatry (see Ephesians 6).<br /><br />There are seven specific things that the Bible teaches that God "hates"<br /><br />16There are six things the Lord hates,<br /> seven that are detestable to Him:<br />17 haughty eyes,<br /> a lying tongue,<br /> hands that shed innocent blood<br />18 a heart that devises wicked schemes<br /> feet that are quick to rush into evil<br />19 a false witness who pours out lies<br /> and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers<br /><br />Proverbs 6:16-19<br /><br />I think sometimes that we believers do not consider the seriousness of this teaching from scripture. I grew up in church. I used to think that churches just split up sometimes and that was how it was. And maybe that is true. But as I've grown older I see all too often that churches tend to be plagued by people within who are in clear violation of these principles - especially the last one - someone who stirs up dissension among brothers.<br /><br />I've decided in my life to not violate these principles if at all possible. Will I always succeed? No, I'm human. I fail all too often and I'm very aware of that. But I will not do something intentionally to make God hate what I've done (Note: I didn't say hate me, but rather hate the action...). <br /><br />I wonder why we don't care too much what God thinks about how we live? If we did, this teaching and others from scripture would be much more relevant and observable in the Christian community.<br /><br />Think about it.<br /><br />BobCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-86555305803913177702007-04-08T11:56:00.001-05:002007-04-08T11:56:43.998-05:00Easter SundayWent to church today.<br /><br />It was really good.<br /><br />Happy Easter!<br /><br />BobCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-34092281083840710972007-04-06T07:48:00.000-05:002007-04-06T07:50:32.912-05:0011 Commandments for an Effective TeamFound this in a Real Estate website I visit quite often and thought it was good. <br /><br /><p>Enjoy!<br /><br /> •1. Help each other be right-rather than wrong.<br /> •2. Look for ways to make new ideas work-rather than for reasons they won't.<br /> •3. If in doubt, check it out-rather than making negative assumptions.<br /> •4. Help each other win and take pride in each other's victories.<br /> •5. Speak positively about each other and about your organization at every opportunity.<br /> •6. Maintain a positive emotional attitude-no matter what the circumstances.<br /> •7. Act with initiative and courage as if it all depends on you.<br /> •8. Do everything with enthusiasm-it's contagious.<br /> •9. Believe in what you are doing-always persist.<br /> 10. Whatever you want-give it away!<br /> 11. Have FUN!</p>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-18441463678779520122007-04-01T12:32:00.000-05:002007-04-01T12:47:02.740-05:00What Happens in Vegas...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-phhjWP9wBpgnnTPJ5RvJbct6nPHS1Nr6Qr-GdpipacVfzI72quMp2Dtxt0_BrEARuWnOMwUYQDXp59MAV_QCbmWqqoH1KPIM0TLkuyz5WX9cwr68zNK3edoEnWNmNn6eUN5H_rIk5A/s1600-h/haunting.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5048514872921279394" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-phhjWP9wBpgnnTPJ5RvJbct6nPHS1Nr6Qr-GdpipacVfzI72quMp2Dtxt0_BrEARuWnOMwUYQDXp59MAV_QCbmWqqoH1KPIM0TLkuyz5WX9cwr68zNK3edoEnWNmNn6eUN5H_rIk5A/s200/haunting.jpg" border="0" /></a> You've heard the saying about what happens in Vegas, right?<br /><br />Well the fact of the matter is that it just isn't true. Memories and experiences stay with us. You cannot walk away from them.<br /><br />This postcard (found this week on <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">PostSecret</span>) is a reminder that we are designed with a conscience. While it is popular these days to say, "Live as you wish," and "Don't tell me how to live," the fact remains that each and everyone of us has morals that are written on our hearts. When we do wrong, we feel bad. God made us that way.<br /><br />I don't know what this person did, but it is obviously eating them up. <br /><br />How, here's the good news about God. He can relieve burdens such as this through confession and repentance. We can never clear our conscience by ourselves, but through being open with those we love and by trusting in God we can clean the slate.<br /><br />Churches are sometimes good about preaching and practicing this and sometimes not so good. They forget that there are some real hurting people in the world who are afraid or scared to darken the doors of a church. And even if hurting people do visit church, they typically aren't going to march down to the front in view of everybody to confess their sins. That's often asking way too much out of someone who is struggling already. This is where a small group of people can be a lifesaver. In small community you can often talk openly about the hurts of life. Sometimes it boils down to a single trusted friend or married couple. <br /><br />For a good example of this go to <a href="http://www.lifechurch.tv/">www.lifechurch.tv</a> and watch the first of their series on <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">SexEd</span>. There's a good example there.<br /><br />In the meantime the thing to remember is that you don't have to carry burdens alone in life. God cares. And further, He isn't going to laugh at you or turn you away. There isn't anything you or I have done that He hasn't heard before. He's pretty cool that way.<br /><br />For believers I think we must be reminded to care about others. Sometimes we simply forget that life is tough and people need to see that faith makes a difference. How we live our lives determines if we really are people who live what we say we believe or not. When are people who live our faith it impacts people in an amazing way. <br /><br />Bob<br /><br /><div align="left"></div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-12923129095018581652007-03-28T08:00:00.000-05:002007-03-28T08:14:33.949-05:00I've Been BusyYou'll notice I haven't blogged in a while. It's no excuse, but I've been pretty busy! I've secured four contracts within the last six weeks and had my first closing. I think that's pretty good for a rookie agent.<br /><br />In our family there are adjustments happening. We have a minor surgery coming up for Diane soon, so we're dealing with insurance and all that pre op stuff. It seems like the cars in our family have all chosen to rebel and break down at the same town. We have two down right now and just got one back from the shop. Ouch! Cars can be pricey!<br /><br />On the church front, we know we're on a journey with God to somewhere. It feels weird and exciting and terrifying to be in this place. It's kind of like we don't "belong" right now to any church body we visit, thus making us feel like outsiders. And yet we know clearly that God is with us, guiding us and caring for us. Never before have I had to completely trust Him so much. It has been tough at times and amazing all the time. On the ministry front, I cannot believe the opportunities God is placing in front of me to minister to people. Seeing faith at a ground level of everyday life is so cool. God is good!<br /><br />Some friends in my life have proved to be true blue through this change in our lives. Others have disappointed. New ones have emerged. It has been what you should expect I think.<br /><br />In the world of Real Estate I have found lots of people who don't know God and who are living for the here and now - which is easy to do in Real Estate. And I've found believers who do not yet really get living their faith daily. And I've found those who do live their faith. But you know what else I've found that has been surprising? The support base has been incredible. Everybody in the field has been supportive and encouraging. I can ask "dumb" rookie questions of anybody in our office and find a friend giving good answers and advice. I am really enjoying have such support - it's something I have not had to this degree before. It truly makes being successful here (along with God's part) "doable."<br /><br /><br />So that's life for now. Talk to you soon.<br /><br />BobCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-29604875710991215492007-03-22T07:54:00.000-05:002007-03-22T08:09:42.083-05:00The New Face of Real Estate in Owasso Has Arrived!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe8PmB-6DLSOyxtdEr00aA3Sqzw10WswwdX5HwX6ZsXaF_mvdv36iQ9iv4M9ngkuH1FIf87ZULWdt1qGC38c1O2ftRP_gu8fDMRux2ac0YR0_xf6y4E_KWfycdDYGjjw-KDRWnS5xT0g/s1600-h/moving.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5044732474786378162" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhe8PmB-6DLSOyxtdEr00aA3Sqzw10WswwdX5HwX6ZsXaF_mvdv36iQ9iv4M9ngkuH1FIf87ZULWdt1qGC38c1O2ftRP_gu8fDMRux2ac0YR0_xf6y4E_KWfycdDYGjjw-KDRWnS5xT0g/s200/moving.jpg" border="0" /></a>I inked another deal yesterday. <div></div><br /><div>So what, right?</div><div></div><br /><div>Well the fact that it's my third deal within a couple of weeks is pretty big - especially when you're new in real estate.</div><div> </div><div>When I went into this industry, I did so with the determination that not only could I make a living doing this, but I could make a difference. And that's what I'm doing. The real estate industry is full of people - some who are stars and some who are duds - just like other industries. But in this industry, it's all up to you - unless you are a believer...</div><div> </div><div>Anyway, showing up is half the battle. The other half is caring about people and simply doing what you say you are going to do. And this is what I do. Unfortunately, too many other agents...don't.</div><div> </div><div>So, be careful when you pick a real estate agent. Sure they may be beautiful, but is this person really quality? What are his/her morals, values and standards? Are they the popular choice just because they are the popular choice or because they've been around forever or because they deliver real world results? Further, are you doing YOUR part when it comes to selling your house? </div><div> </div><div>And how about that discount group? Did you know when you go the discount route you'll still end up paying the buyer's agent out of your profit and proceeds? So, is it really a discount when you're going to pay both sides anyway? Think about it.</div><div> </div><div>I'm still somewhat new, but I'm here. I'm making a difference. I'm helping people know and see that somebody still cares, still serves and still works hard to make a living.</div><div> </div><div>Are you ready for the best in the real estate industry? There's a new face in town and his name is Bob Haywood! Contact me to buy or sell your next house and see how sweet it is to work with someone who cares about you! </div><div> </div><div>(How's that for self promotion?)</div><div> </div><div>B</div><div> </div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-6318615280731850242007-03-15T07:49:00.000-05:002007-03-15T07:51:52.644-05:00GodMen<div></div><div></div><div>Saw a story on Good Morning America this morning about a new movement called the "Godmen." Their basic premise is that the church is too soft for men and has gone "girly"</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Don't know much about this group yet, but here's a link to their website.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div><a href="http://www.godmen.org/index.html">http://www.godmen.org/index.html</a></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>Question: Do you think the church is too "sissy" for real men? Does it sing PROM songs to Jesus (as the group claims?)</div><br /><div></div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-37651049694906187132007-03-13T07:56:00.001-05:002007-03-13T07:56:22.720-05:00Jesus Painting<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><p><object height='350' width='425'><param value='http://youtube.com/v/8M4_IlbaZHA' name='movie'></param><embed height='350' width='425' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' src='http://youtube.com/v/8M4_IlbaZHA'></embed></object></p><p>Pretty cool video. Take a few minutes to watch and I think you'll be surprised.</p></div>Collinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4161857509607166022.post-57530202606855804182007-03-12T06:54:00.000-05:002007-03-12T08:14:39.387-05:00Our Visit to the Church in TulsaHad family in town over the weekend due to my son being in the Tulsa World <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">Satellite</span> Battle of the Band contest at the Cain's Ballroom. His band didn't win, but they had a good time performing and it was a good experience.<br /><br />So Sunday we went to church with my sister. We know lots of folks who attend this particular church and had been intending to go there to visit on a Sunday. With my folks here it was as good a time as any to go.<br /><br />Got there before the service began. This church didn't have door greeters, but did have bulletin folks. You'll find as you visit churches that some put people at the doors, some have ushers, some don't, some use men and women and some use just men. It's always fun (to me) to see which set up we'll encounter.<br /><br />Even though we know lots of people at this church, we didn't find it overly friendly from those we didn't know. Sometimes churches are like that. I don't think they mean to not be friendly as much as they forget to intentionally think of the visitors. You know how it is, you get to visiting with your friends, you think someone else will speak to that person you don't know - maybe even you mean to say something to them and you just don't get out of your <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">conversation</span> soon enough. I'd be curious to hear of your experience as you've visited churches. Friendly? Not friendly?<br /><br />The service began without fanfare. When done right it's a pretty cool deal. You're sitting there, the crowd is visiting, the lights come up and off you go. I liked it.<br /><br />The worship in this church was well paced, but mostly geared for a younger crowd. However, even with the "younger" approach to the music (which I'm not complaining about, but rather just observing) it was still done very well - adult style. Everybody on stage was dressed to match with business casual. The worship leader came across very comfortably on stage. They had a keyboard player, electric guitars, bass, drums and the leader on acoustic. I liked the hymn they began with even though it was altered. My parents did not (they're from the Builder Generation).<br /><br />Questions...is there a good way to handle the diverse crowds you get in church worship? How do you minister to the young folks without alienating the older crowd? And how do you minister to the older crowd without alienating the young crowd? Can this be done? If it can be done, why is it usually not done? Interesting and challenging questions for the church.<br /><br />This church takes communion every Sunday which is a tradition in our fellowship. I enjoy being in a place that observes communion weekly. That was nice.<br /><br />Prior to the sermon a young lady sang a special. It was nerve racking because you didn't know if she was going to make it through it. She kept getting a bit off key and off tempo. You'd think, "Oh man, she's off...she's going to run off stage crying. It's gonna be bad!" Then she'd catch back up and keep going. To her credit, she didn't quit. She made it through the song, but it was a rough ride!<br /><br />The sermon was good with practical application. The message was based on Peter's denial of Christ. I liked how well the preacher tied in our lives today to the situation. I noticed in the bulletin that this preacher has a personal website blog. I thought that was cool. Our preacher has one and I love that you can keep up with him on a personal level through it. Good idea.<br /><br />Here's something interesting from the message...As an illustration the preacher quoted a newspaper article about two guys who were imitating stupid stunts from a movie. One of the guys got badly burned. The preacher quoted the name of the movie - Jackass and said that the one guy was burned on his genitals. I was a bit taken aback. I don't believe I've ever heard those two particular words spoken from the pulpit...I'm not saying this was bad - just...surprising. What do you think? Appropriate or not?<br /><br />All in all it was a good service. My only complaint would be that we stood up too long in worship but that is a <em>personal preference</em> and some worship leaders say it's okay to sit down if you don't want to stand up that long.<br /><br />Question: What's your opinion about standing/sitting in worship?<br /><br />It was good to see good friends and to catch up with people. Found out a friend and his wife had just returned from India. Some of the "kids" from my old youth group are graduating college and some people I know know another person I know, so that will be fun to discuss that with the person from my own fellowship.<br /><br />On a personal note I was told that our preacher has had a physical setback and for that I am so very sorry. I know him well and I know how frustrating this will be for him. Please say a prayer for him. He's a great guy with a deep love for the church and the Lord.<br /><br />BCollinsville Christian Churchhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04324526955031078688noreply@blogger.com2